<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603</id><updated>2009-10-29T20:57:48.667-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Men Standing Up: Taking Action Against Sexual Assault</title><subtitle type='html'>"When men stand up to end violence against women, the world is going to change" &lt;br&gt;- Eve Ensler</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>26</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-4339392813635323168</id><published>2009-10-12T14:07:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-19T14:11:27.628-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Sexual Assault and the Military</title><summary type='text'>The organization Veterans for Peace reports that 37% of the attempted and raped women  in a VA study also reported being raped more than once and 14% of them reported being gang raped. This study also discovered that 75% of raped women in the military failed to report it.The Department of Defense also reports that 1 in 3 women in the military are raped. This information lead the organization, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/4339392813635323168/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=4339392813635323168' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/4339392813635323168'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/4339392813635323168'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/10/sexual-assault-and-military.html' title='Sexual Assault and the Military'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Hoa3_a0aiS0/StzHgLhhgRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/JDM464KTL98/s72-c/militaryrapeawarenessweek.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-5888280231636475187</id><published>2009-06-21T09:12:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-06-21T09:12:00.893-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Fathers need to talk with their daughters about dating violence - NTV - KHGI/KWNB/WSWS-CA - Where your news comes first. - Grand Island, Kearney, Hastings, Lincoln |</title><summary type='text'>Fathers need to talk with their daughters about dating violence - NTV - KHGI/KWNB/WSWS-CA - Where your news comes first. - Grand Island, Kearney, Hastings, Lincoln |Shared via AddThis</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/5888280231636475187/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=5888280231636475187' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/5888280231636475187'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/5888280231636475187'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/06/fathers-need-to-talk-with-their.html' title='Fathers need to talk with their daughters about dating violence - NTV - KHGI/KWNB/WSWS-CA - Where your news comes first. - Grand Island, Kearney, Hastings, Lincoln |'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-8855764859119495575</id><published>2009-06-18T18:33:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2009-06-18T18:42:52.820-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Bystander Intervention Can Reduce Sexual Assault</title><summary type='text'>You can tell young women how to reduce their risk of being assaulted. And you can tell young men that real men don’t rape. But student sexual assault persists on campus. What more can you do?Bystander intervention training for both women and men brings changes in attitudes, behaviors and sexual assault levels on campus. Dr. John D. Foubert, associate professor of college student development at </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/8855764859119495575/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=8855764859119495575' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8855764859119495575'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8855764859119495575'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/06/bystander-intervention-can-reduce.html' title='Bystander Intervention Can Reduce Sexual Assault'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Hoa3_a0aiS0/Sjrd5MoyRmI/AAAAAAAAAFE/SAkRXkKR8KU/s72-c/picture.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-3017671770246396326</id><published>2009-06-14T19:51:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2009-06-14T20:04:36.555-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Sexual Violence: Whose Problem Is It Anyway?</title><summary type='text'>Top Ten Reasons from the Family Violence Prevention FundMost men do not agree with men's violence, yet do nothing to challenge or stop it - these men need to be mobilized to prevent violence.Some men are already working to prevent violence but lack support; many more would like to get involved but don't know how.Many women want men to step up and take a stand against violence.Men commit most of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/3017671770246396326/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=3017671770246396326' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/3017671770246396326'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/3017671770246396326'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/06/sexual-violence-whose-problem-is-it.html' title='Sexual Violence: Whose Problem Is It Anyway?'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-3919695595061810689</id><published>2009-06-13T09:13:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-06-13T09:13:22.735-06:00</updated><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'></summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/3919695595061810689/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=3919695595061810689' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/3919695595061810689'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/3919695595061810689'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/06/blog-post.html' title=''/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-3310373437900716124</id><published>2009-06-11T21:14:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-06-11T21:14:42.299-06:00</updated><title type='text'>NOW's Media Hall of Shame</title><summary type='text'>NOW's Media Hall of ShameShared via AddThis</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/3310373437900716124/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=3310373437900716124' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/3310373437900716124'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/3310373437900716124'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/06/now-media-hall-of-shame.html' title='NOW&amp;#39;s Media Hall of Shame'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-9115255385369967370</id><published>2009-06-10T23:44:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2009-06-11T00:24:03.576-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Something to Think About</title><summary type='text'>An Army Sergeant in Washington state was charged in juvenile sex traffickingThat is very interesting considering the social media campaign that was launched in April 2009 Actually, the Department of Defense did institute a new policy on Prevention and Response to Sexual Assault in 2005.  The Sexual Assault and Prevention Response office has been actively working providing appropriate responses to</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/9115255385369967370/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=9115255385369967370' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/9115255385369967370'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/9115255385369967370'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/06/something-to-think-about.html' title='Something to Think About'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Hoa3_a0aiS0/SjCa9m_DjmI/AAAAAAAAAE8/Fb-gNXj6iY0/s72-c/all-dod-400.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-4109197429609504089</id><published>2009-06-10T07:17:00.004-06:00</published><updated>2009-06-11T08:10:04.755-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Summer Reading</title><summary type='text'>Goat: A Memoirby Brad LandReview by Jonathan Stillerman, Men Can Stop Rape co-Director and co-Founder"Goat" is a true story of traditional masculinity and the damage itcan do to relationships with oneself, one's family, and one'scommunity.  Told through the eyes of the author as a younger man,Brad Land's moving and painful first novel centers around hisrelationship with his brother, Brett, both </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/4109197429609504089/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=4109197429609504089' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/4109197429609504089'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/4109197429609504089'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/06/summer-reading.html' title='Summer Reading'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Hoa3_a0aiS0/Si-zyuTd6HI/AAAAAAAAAE0/rSr0Vmt2DVU/s72-c/FC9780812969689.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-8050315187834392517</id><published>2009-06-09T06:33:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-06-09T06:34:26.765-06:00</updated><title type='text'>There is an urgent need to do something</title><summary type='text'>Over the weekend I met yet another woman who has been assaulted; she was only 21 years old at the time. She was assaulted by a 30 year old guy from last year's Burning Man. For 6 months, she was in inner agony, she cried every day, and understandably, she shut herself off from any intimacy with men. That assault can happen at something ostensibly as cool and hip as Burning Man, that speaks to how</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/8050315187834392517/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=8050315187834392517' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8050315187834392517'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8050315187834392517'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/06/there-is-urgent-need-to-do-something.html' title='There is an urgent need to do something'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-1546424175825089373</id><published>2009-06-08T22:14:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-06-08T22:22:52.495-06:00</updated><title type='text'>One Woman's Answer to Catcalls</title><summary type='text'>I was walking down the street in downtown Washington, D.C., chugging on a bottle of Perrier. A bike messenger leaning up against a tree says, "Can I have some . . ." with a wink and a leer. I say, "Sure" and splash the Perrier in his face. Two African-American men walking toward me see this and, laughing, say, "Way to go, sister!" I start laughing and so does the bike messenger. We all laughed be</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/1546424175825089373/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=1546424175825089373' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/1546424175825089373'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/1546424175825089373'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/06/one-womans-answer-to-catcalls.html' title='One Woman&apos;s Answer to Catcalls'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-5879948992588453318</id><published>2009-06-07T17:41:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-06-07T17:42:11.170-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Bystander Intervention</title><summary type='text'>How many times have you been at a party or with a small group of friends and witnessed something that made you feel uneasy? Maybe it was a man pressuring a woman to leave with him. Perhaps it was a sexist joke or comment. Or maybe you saw a friend slap his date. What would you do?You might be thinking, "That's none of my business." You may feel like to say something would mean "sticking your nose</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/5879948992588453318/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=5879948992588453318' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/5879948992588453318'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/5879948992588453318'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/06/bystander-intervention.html' title='Bystander Intervention'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-8047615958395709790</id><published>2009-06-06T11:40:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2009-06-06T11:56:27.034-06:00</updated><title type='text'>We Need Male Allies</title><summary type='text'>This is a great article by American Association of University Women    “Men are essential to feminism and to ending sexual assault. If they weren’t, we’d already have ended it.”    — Jerin Alam, president, Hunter Women’s Rights Coalition, Hunter College, New York, during a workshop presentationThis week I attended Men Can Stop Rape’s first annual conference, focused on men and women as allies in </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/8047615958395709790/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=8047615958395709790' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8047615958395709790'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8047615958395709790'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/06/we-need-male-allies.html' title='We Need Male Allies'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Hoa3_a0aiS0/SiqsStQuWkI/AAAAAAAAAEc/RQS0LIxkZ08/s72-c/menstoprape_rituSharmabryonHurt.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-8737804226698424831</id><published>2009-06-06T11:37:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-06-06T11:37:29.392-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Men Can, and Should, Stop Rape | RHRealityCheck.org</title><summary type='text'>Men Can, and Should, Stop Rape | RHRealityCheck.orgPosted using ShareThis</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/8737804226698424831/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=8737804226698424831' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8737804226698424831'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8737804226698424831'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/06/men-can-and-should-stop-rape.html' title='Men Can, and Should, Stop Rape | RHRealityCheck.org'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-7933957645228680046</id><published>2009-05-30T07:52:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2009-05-30T08:10:32.179-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Experts Link Recession to Increased Domestic Violence</title><summary type='text'>As noted in Boulder's Daily Camera   and in the US Catholic there is a noted increase of domestic violence during recessions.  It is important to remember that Domestic Violence includes sexual assault.   Sexual assault is sexual assault even if it is by a partner/spouse.  If a person does not consent it is sexual assault.Some great articles to check out about Parter/Spousal Sexual assaultSpousal</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/7933957645228680046/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=7933957645228680046' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/7933957645228680046'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/7933957645228680046'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/05/experts-link-recession-to-increased.html' title='Experts Link Recession to Increased Domestic Violence'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-2404776826197453530</id><published>2009-05-29T07:21:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-05-29T07:23:29.216-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='anti-violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sons'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fathers'/><title type='text'>7 Ways You Can Coach Boys into Men</title><summary type='text'>Teach Early. It’s never too soon to talk to a child about violence. Let him know how you think he should express his anger and frustration – and what is out of bounds. Talk with him about what it means to be fair, share and treat others with respect.Be there. If it comes down to one thing you can do, this is it. Just being with boys is crucial. The time doesn’t have to be spent in activities. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/2404776826197453530/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=2404776826197453530' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/2404776826197453530'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/2404776826197453530'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/05/7-ways-you-can-coach-boys-into-men.html' title='7 Ways You Can Coach Boys into Men'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-8539936760662609622</id><published>2009-05-27T21:11:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2009-05-27T21:17:24.841-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Sex objects: Pictures shift men's view of women</title><summary type='text'>(Ian Sample, Chicago guardian.co.uk, Monday 16 February 2009 13.42 GMT)Men are more likely to think of women as objects if they have looked at sexy pictures of females beforehand, psychologists said yesterday.Researchers used brain scans to show that when straight men looked at pictures of women in bikinis, areas of the brain that normally light up in anticipation of using tools, like spanners </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/8539936760662609622/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=8539936760662609622' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8539936760662609622'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8539936760662609622'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/05/sex-objects-pictures-shift-mens-view-of.html' title='Sex objects: Pictures shift men&apos;s view of women'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Hoa3_a0aiS0/Sh4COQYsn2I/AAAAAAAAAEU/CPUMF2Y3W8w/s72-c/A-drill-bit-burrowing-int-001.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-7834027226893009343</id><published>2009-05-25T16:51:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-05-25T16:52:23.349-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='macho'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='PCAR'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='men against rape'/><title type='text'>Why Should Men Be Involved?</title><summary type='text'>During our struggle to end sexual violence, often due to time, staffing, and monetary constraints, many of us as advocates have been forced for too long to fail to adequately include the portion of our population that is most often responsible for sexual misconduct. We need desperately to begin collectively and in a comprehensive and strategically manner to act on the knowledge that we live in a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/7834027226893009343/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=7834027226893009343' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/7834027226893009343'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/7834027226893009343'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2009/05/why-should-men-be-involved.html' title='Why Should Men Be Involved?'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-5388289482298229814</id><published>2008-12-26T10:36:00.005-07:00</published><updated>2008-12-26T10:44:15.280-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Byron Hurt Coming to Denver</title><summary type='text'>Mark your calendars!  Byron Hurt-- well-known for his documentary "Beyond Beats and Rhymes"-- will be coming to the Auraria campus Wednesday, April 29, 2009 at 1 pm!Filmmaker Byron Hurt, a life-long hip-hop fan, was watching rap music videos on BET when he realized that each video was nearly identical. Guys in fancy cars threw money at the camera while scantily clad women danced in the background</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/5388289482298229814/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=5388289482298229814' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/5388289482298229814'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/5388289482298229814'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2008/12/byron-hurt-coming-to-denver.html' title='Byron Hurt Coming to Denver'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Hoa3_a0aiS0/SVUW-EHCpmI/AAAAAAAAAD8/GIQ9w_Bu9w4/s72-c/film_byron.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-8791302229315449587</id><published>2008-12-08T12:09:00.003-07:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T12:45:16.035-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sports'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sexism'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='media'/><title type='text'>NHL Punishes For "Sloppy Seconds" Remark</title><summary type='text'>The National Hockey League responded very quickly following player Sean Avery's comments about his former girlfriend.  Avery went on tape during an interview and said "I am really happy to be back in Calgary, I love Canada. I just want to comment on how it's become like a common thing in the NHL for guys to fall in love with my sloppy seconds. I don't know what that's about. Enjoy the game </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/8791302229315449587/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=8791302229315449587' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8791302229315449587'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8791302229315449587'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2008/12/nhl-punishes-for-sloppy-seconds-remark.html' title='NHL Punishes For &quot;Sloppy Seconds&quot; Remark'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-1744754304833433776</id><published>2008-11-24T16:20:00.004-07:00</published><updated>2008-11-24T16:27:15.717-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='MESA'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='local'/><title type='text'>MESA in the News</title><summary type='text'>Boulder Weekly published a great article about ending sexual assault this week. It also highlights the Men Standing Up program, and the ways that men have been involved in the movement.Check it out, HERE.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/1744754304833433776/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=1744754304833433776' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/1744754304833433776'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/1744754304833433776'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2008/11/mesa-in-news.html' title='MESA in the News'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-5087140706491142465</id><published>2008-11-21T14:44:00.004-07:00</published><updated>2008-11-21T14:57:45.635-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='media'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='victim blaming'/><title type='text'>Victim Blaming those "Drunk Chicks"</title><summary type='text'>So TMZ reported today that the host of "Human Weapon", Jason Chambers, was arrested for an alleged sexual assault.  In a follow up post, they posted a video with the headline "Celeb Rape Suspect Was a Drunk Chick Magnet" The post reads as follows:By the way the drunk chicks were flocking toward Jason Chambers when we caught him out in Hollywood in October, it's hard to believe the former History </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/5087140706491142465/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=5087140706491142465' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/5087140706491142465'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/5087140706491142465'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2008/11/victim-blaming-those-drunk-chicks.html' title='Victim Blaming those &quot;Drunk Chicks&quot;'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-8966786028002096367</id><published>2008-11-21T14:26:00.004-07:00</published><updated>2008-11-21T14:42:48.430-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='local'/><title type='text'>"Nude Priest Gets Probation, Will Register as Sex Offender"</title><summary type='text'>According to an article in the Boulder Camera today:"Robert Whipkey, 53, was serving at parishes in Erie, Mead and Frederick when he was arrested and placed on leave. This summer, Whipkey was found guilty of indecent exposure, a misdemeanor that carries mandatory registration as a sex offender for at least 10 years."While the case may not sound that provocative, there is an incredible discussion </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/8966786028002096367/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=8966786028002096367' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8966786028002096367'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/8966786028002096367'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2008/11/nude-priest-gets-probation-will.html' title='&quot;Nude Priest Gets Probation, Will Register as Sex Offender&quot;'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-7851056028464500554</id><published>2008-08-22T08:29:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2008-08-22T08:35:25.701-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Why should you join the Men Standing Up Program?</title><summary type='text'>


Lend a hand in helping end violence against women.  Be part of the Men Standing Up Program.  Call 303-443-0400 and join today.</summary><link rel='enclosure' type='video/mp4' href='http://www.blogger.com/video-play.mp4?contentId=2343a3865e6fe5&amp;type=video%2Fmp4' length='0'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/7851056028464500554/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=7851056028464500554' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/7851056028464500554'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/7851056028464500554'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2008/08/why-should-you-join-men-standing-up.html' title='Why should you join the Men Standing Up Program?'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-429082471010018163</id><published>2008-06-11T07:37:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2008-06-11T07:45:31.840-06:00</updated><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>The Longmont White Ribbon Campaign has kicked off!  The Men's Program from MESA helped Longmont kick off their white ribbon campaign by preparing the 24 white ribbons that now hang on Main Street.  It was an adventure of it's own painting 24 ribbons during torrential downpours!  With the help of volunteer Jeff Israel, we were able to get them done in time to hang!   MESA volunteers Kevin Kelly </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/429082471010018163/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=429082471010018163' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/429082471010018163'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/429082471010018163'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2008/06/blog-post.html' title=''/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009600136315729603.post-9161579114122949453</id><published>2008-05-26T19:18:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2008-05-26T19:27:13.668-06:00</updated><title type='text'>What Men Can Do To Stop Rape</title><summary type='text'>Obtain clear, participatory consent for any sexual behavior with another person. Always.Educate yourself. Attend programs, take classes, and read articles and books about the root causes of sexism and gender violenceBe aware of language.  Words are very powerful.  Choose to use words that are respectful of women and girls rather than those than that put them down or view them as sexual </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/feeds/9161579114122949453/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6009600136315729603&amp;postID=9161579114122949453' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/9161579114122949453'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6009600136315729603/posts/default/9161579114122949453'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://menstandup.blogspot.com/2008/05/what-men-can-do-to-stop-rape.html' title='What Men Can Do To Stop Rape'/><author><name>Men Standing Up</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00958202235196122138</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05609777802365530739'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry></feed>